Aimee's Entry - I Have Some Explaining To Do...

I promised I'd do this yesterday but life's been a bit hectic for me lately. Drama, drama, drama.

Okay, here I go... When I mentioned Drew's threesome fantasy last week some of you lovely gentlemen didn't understand his insensitivity (I thought that was extremely sweet, by the way, thank you) and if we were talking about any other woman besides myself, I'd normally agree with you but since we’re talking about me, I have to clarify some things.

Jay's comment...

... So Drew wants a 3-way with you and another woman. Congratulations, you married a man ...

was spot on about *most* men and Drew is no different. He's a normal, red-blooded, totally straight guy and like almost every normal, red-blooded, totally straight guy he has visions of threesomes dancing in his head. Two, hot, slippery women wrapped around each other while he tries to shimmy in between them. I don't fault him for it.

Why?

Well because, it's not only Drew's fantasy we're talking about here. Yes, that's right, it's just as much my fantasy as it is his. I think I've mentioned this before (maybe not here but somewhere in someone’s comments, I think) but sexually, I’m attracted to women. I've only had sex with one woman but I've been intimate with a woman on more than one occasion. So, when the subject of a threesome came up, it was something that we were both interested in. The only concern (and this was Drew's concern) was that I would have a problem with him being sexually intimate with another woman. He said that if and when this ever came to pass, he'd just watch if his participating would bother me but that wouldn't be fair, would it? Why should I get to have sex with someone else while he merely watches?

When I brought it up the other day, I didn't mean for it to sound like I was upset about it -- I wasn't. You see, the subject has been tabled for so long because although we've discussed it, finding a woman that we'd both feel comfortable enough to share the experience with isn't an easy thing so, I was just surprised when he brought it up out of the blue.

Drew can be an ass about a lot of things and a good majority of the time we don't see eye to eye on a whole mess of things but he's a good guy and he would never try to pressure me into a situation that I don't want to be in. I want to be in this one.

And since we're on the topic of Drew... Our anniversary is in 4 days.



Come on everybody, say it with me, "Awwwww..."

I'm wondering if I should get him a card or something or just leave it alone? I'm a sentimental sap and he's not. Hell, he usually doesn't even remember unless I mention it. So, what do you think?